so I am 19 yrs old and am a 2nd yr university student. i feel like im totally going against the tide being a youth. like i work really hard at my uni and have a job, but and don’t really go out all that much, mainly because i really don’t have the money and im saving for things in the coming years.
im not really a fan of getting pissed, or going to things that i have no interest in just cause everyone else is, or having one night stands. .. my cousins were here recently with friends and were happy to meet up with my bro (who fits this) but when i asked if i could see them they said they’d see me nxt wkend (they were coming back for an uncle wedding)
this really hurt. i am pretty happy who i am, and generally stand up for myself. .. i just want to know if there are others out there who find more interesting things in life then getting plastered every wkend and not wanting further education ??
I’m 18, have never been drunk, been to a party, had a REAL boyfriend or had sex. All the weed smoking, horny young people I know think I’m weird, but I don’t care. They’ll all wish they were like me in the future.
For example, I have this friend who always used to get drunk and have sex with random guys. I would constantly tell her it was dirty and wrong, but she would wave me off. Now, a year later, she wishes she had listened to me…..Who would rather stay home and read Stephen King or paint than hit up a hoppin club.
These people who are going out and vomiting their guts out every weekend are simply "children" looking for attention, not young adults.
But I wouldn’t worry about it too much, they’ll all comes to their senses someday.
And I understand that it seems all the guys want some "hot party girl"…But lemme tell you, those chicks are good….For an hour. When it comes to real relationships, all men appreciate good girls like you and I.
So keep your head high and don’t fall into the torrent of modern day youth society?
January 1st, 2010 at 9:11 pm
Just do you, if you don’t fit any stereo types then that’s a good thing that’s unique. there’s always haters out there that are not going to like it, but don’t let it get to you, if they don’t like you for who you are then you don’t need to associate yourself with those particular individuals.
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January 1st, 2010 at 9:17 pm
Well done to you for not following others and being yourself. You have a very mature head for a 19 year old. I know a couple of young lads who would rather spend their money on hobbies which involve meeting other like minded people of all ages, having fun and learning from them. One of them is also studying to get into university. You are probably not alone in the way you work.
I wish you well in your studies and don’t worry what others think, your life, your future.
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January 1st, 2010 at 10:05 pm
I’m 21 i don’t go out and vomit on myself every weekend too. It’s alright every now and again to go out, but in general it’s a case of been there done that. I enjoy sitting in and reading rather then going out at times.
I don’t want to end up in the same route as other people. I want to travel, i want to work in art and even though i’m bad at saving i admire your ability to do so.
Never let other people make you feel bad about your life.
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January 1st, 2010 at 10:23 pm
I’m 18, have never been drunk, been to a party, had a REAL boyfriend or had sex. All the weed smoking, horny young people I know think I’m weird, but I don’t care. They’ll all wish they were like me in the future.
For example, I have this friend who always used to get drunk and have sex with random guys. I would constantly tell her it was dirty and wrong, but she would wave me off. Now, a year later, she wishes she had listened to me…..Who would rather stay home and read Stephen King or paint than hit up a hoppin club.
These people who are going out and vomiting their guts out every weekend are simply "children" looking for attention, not young adults.
But I wouldn’t worry about it too much, they’ll all comes to their senses someday.
And I understand that it seems all the guys want some "hot party girl"…But lemme tell you, those chicks are good….For an hour. When it comes to real relationships, all men appreciate good girls like you and I.
So keep your head high and don’t fall into the torrent of modern day youth society?
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